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When you are your girlfriend have a break up
(since the majority of breakups are initiated by the girl I'm going
to assume this is your situation) feelings of panic, pain, and
desperation can take over quickly and the only thing charging
through your mind is "I
need to know how to back a girlfriend!"
Here are 4 steps to win your girlfriend back and the first
is the most critical. It has everything to do with your
attitude and it is...
Step 1 to win back a girlfriend:
Relax!!. I know this can be tough but if you act out of a emotional
place of desperation your going to behave in a way that drives your
girl away even farther. Girlfriends leave for 1 of 3
reasons. She either never really let you in her heart in the
first place, she fell out of love with you and fell in love with
another guy, OR she loves you but you hurt her and she questions her
future with you. If she left you for the first or second reason
then she did you a favor by leaving. You don't need a bum that
can't appreciate and love you for who you are.
It will help you tremendously to
meet new girls.
The more the better. You may not feel that way right now but
TRUST ME. Even if your heart is not in it just go
through the motions and pretty soon your heart (and other parts of
your body) won't just be going through the motions anymore.
The Matchbook Method is highly recommended
in this situation because it will show you how to meet 30 girls in 10
minutes. Hot, high quality girls.
If she left for the third reason then there is
definite hope and you CAN get your girl back. The first order
of business here though is to get your head on straight and kill the
feelings of desperation as this will kill your chances.
Step 2 to win back
a girlfriend:
Stop ALL contact with your
ex girlfriend (just for a little while) This is especially
tough to do when your heart is screaming "I LOVE HER AND I WANT MY
GIRLFRIEND BACK! Do not do this. Stay away from her and
leaving her alone for a couple of weeks. Give her time to miss
you and think about you.
Now if your ex girlfriend has completely made
up her mind that she wants nothing more to do with you then you need
to face the fact that your not going to be able to win your ex back.
I know this from experience. If your ex girlfriend has
mentally completely closed the door to loving you then it will be
like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. It's like they just turn on you
and all of a sudden your the enemy and the love for you has
instantly just died forever. When it happens it is tough to
understand and they just seem so heartless and cold at that point
but it is better to face this than fool yourself and keep hope alive
which will do nothing more than drag the pain on longer than it
needs to.
However if she is just hurt or angry , being
without you for the next couple of weeks will make her miss you.
And trust me, she will. If she loves you and you hurt her or made
her angry, there is no way that she will not miss you. But this can
only happen if you leave her by herself. Read this 50 times to
get this through your head:
If you want any chance to win an ex girlfriend back you must stay
totally away from her for several weeks for her to miss you.
Again, it will make it a LOT easier to stay away from her if your
out meeting other women. She cant accuse you of cheating on her if
SHE broke up with you.
Matchbook Method of meeting 30 girls in 10 minutes.
Step 3 to win back
a girlfriend: Socialize! Again, its part of the same
tip already mentioned twice about the Matchbook Method of meeting
women. If your busy talking with and meeting other people (you
could meet guys too. Nothing wrong with making new friends). Then
your mind and time will be busy and well spent.
Step 4 to win back
a girlfriend: Don't just go meet new women...GO OUT
ON DATES WITH THEM. This can fuel a little jealousy with your ex
girlfriend and dig up that evil little thought all women have of
"that is my man and she cant have him!" Which can work in your favor
in a big way. NOTE: if the reason
your girlfriend left you is you cheated on her this is NOT a great
idea.
I would suggest downloading the book "Magic
Of Making Up" It is very popular and there is a reason for it.
The few tips I have outlined her is just the tip of the iceberg of
things you can do to get your girl back AS WELL as make yourself
feel better.
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