The following Original Date Ideas will accomplish
the following:
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Make you stand out from the boring dates
she’s probably used to. |
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Make opportunities to flirt, kiss, and
escalate intimacy. |
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Begin at a public place…end up back at your
place. |
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Hit multiple venues/locations, which makes
her more comfortable faster. |
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Let you be in control and show her your the
leader…the alpha male! |
Avoid initial dating setups that
result in you sitting across from her like for
instance dinner at a restaurant or at a table at Starbucks.
The table acts as a barrier that creates distance and stiffness.
Some girls will like this barrier as it makes them feel safer and
if this is the case keep it in the back of your mind as your try
to figure if this girl is uptight and incapable of having fun.
In that case the best date idea would be to go to a hardware
store, buy a broom, tell her to get on it and go home.
Don't pay for everything. You just as good a cash as her if
not better. At least your smart enough to be reading things
that help you with your dating and improve your life like this web
page. Is she that smart?? 3/4 of successful dating with women is
your attitude. It is an attitude that is the exact opposite of
what most guys attitude is. Most guys, when they are around a hot
girl, think "wow she is hot. I want her. She is not going to like
me."
The correct attitude is "I am a winner and she will be very lucky
to have me!" Even if you do not believe that right now then you
need to have a little talk with yourself and give yourself
more credit as a human being. Just cause she is hot
doesn't make her better than you or anyone else!
Original date idea #1:
Remember the scene in Wayne’s World where they are laying on the
car watching planes fly over and land? That’s sort of what this
is. Have her meet you at a grocery store. Pick out some food
or snacks. Ice cream is always a good one.
Take YOUR car and drive her to your local airport. Find a
good spot underneath where planes land and take off. Make a picnic
and watch the planes fly over. You should get in some good
flirting and playful touching the airport.
Original date idea #2:
This one is a little more seasonal (Halloween) Meet at
a haunted house and be sure to tell her ahead of time what you’re
doing in case she hates haunted houses or doesn’t feel up to it.
Let her buy her own ticket. She’s not your girlfriend…yet. After
the haunted house suggest doing something else, like getting ice
cream or hot cider, etc. Remember to be confident and assertive as
opposed to asking. Say, “I’m totally craving a caramel apple
cider. I know a great place really close to
here.” This is important to say because it tells her you aren’t
planning on
keeping her out long. There are usually waiting lines at
haunted houses so use that time to get in some playful teasing and
comfort building. It’s also a great time to raise her attraction
temperature so she’ll be in the mood to kiss and stay close to you
inside. If the opportunity presents itself, pull her into a spot
out of the main traffic flow and kiss her.
The matchbook method of meeting girls is
filled with ideas for original and exciting dates with girls that
will instantly set you apart from the average, boring, guy!
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